There’s another uncomfortable truth we need to face—especially if we care about stopping harm at its root.
The most powerful men in the world understand gender conflict better than anyone. They know feminism exists because men caused harm. They know women’s anger is justified. And instead of changing, they exploit that divide.
They benefit when boys feel written off.
They benefit when boys feel hated before they’ve even formed an identity.
Because a boy who feels irredeemable is easier to numb, easier to radicalise, and easier to shape into the kind of man this system already rewards.
So they normalise objectification.
They flood young men with porn.
They teach them that worth comes from dominance, sex, and power.
And when those boys grow into damaged men, the system shrugs and says: See? Men are the problem.
Men are responsible. Men created this. That doesn’t change.
But boys are not born broken.
This is where I want to speak directly—and respectfully—to feminists and women who fight for justice. Not to ask you to forgive harm. Not to excuse it. Not to soften your standards.
But to consider this:
intervening early is not betrayal—it’s prevention.
Boys who feel seen as lost causes eventually stop trying to be good. And when they’re lost, they don’t disappear. They become the men we later—and rightly—criticise.
As men, we must take accountability. We must call out other men. We must dismantle the cultures we built.
But women have a power here too—not to fix men, but to interrupt the pipeline before it hardens. To help separate boys from the systems grooming them into harm.
This isn’t about centring men.
It’s about refusing to let the same evil reproduce itself.
The people at the top fear unity. They profit from gender war.
If justified anger is allowed to be weaponised against children, the cycle continues—and they win again.
Looking out for vulnerable boys doesn’t weaken feminism.
It protects its future.
